
Somebody told me once that we can learn from our kids. Well, your kids can teach other kids too. Today, my son Joey (the catcher making the play in the pic) set the example, and did something that you rarely see. Almost never. Except maybe in golf, where players have been known to lose a huge paycheck because they reported themselves for a rules infraction. Like
Brian Davis did when he gave up a shot at a $1 million dollar payday. Rather than lose their integrity and honor, they chose to lose the match. Joey's team, the Coupeville Braves, did not lose today, in fact they trounced the Oak Harbor Red Sox 15-2. At some point during the game (I wasn't there, I had to work), Joey hit a slow roller, fair ball, to first base. The Red Sox first baseman charged the ball, and got there about the same time as Joey. There was no play at first, because the Red Sox pitcher failed to come off the mound and cover first base. So the first baseman made a desperate attempt to tag Joey. He reached as far as he could to get him, Joey stepped on the base, and the umpire yells, "SAFE!!!"
Just one problem
Joey was out. The first baseman had barely touched his back, out of sight of the umpire. Joey could not see the hurt look on the face of the infielder, as he was busy over running first base. The Red Sox coach looked disappointed, but said nothing. The first baseman, probably an 8 or 9 year old kid, coached NEVER to argue a call, looked exasperated, but said nothing. Even the opposing teams fans had looks that said, "At this point, who cares?" It was 11-1, and if the Red Sox didn't muster a heroic 11-run, bat-through-the-order-twice last couple of innings, the game was over anyway. They had, after all, only scored one run to this point.
Somebody finally challenged the umpires call.
Instead of walking back to first, Joey went to the umpire and told the umpire he was wrong. "He got me", he said. "I was out". The umpire stared at Joey a second, probably attempting to think of something to say. Seeing the conversation, and probably thinking that Joey was saying all the wrong things to the ump, the Braves coach calls time, and jogs out to first to investigate. What he finds is not an argument, at least not the type he was expecting. So the umpire call over the home plate umpire, who maintained that he didn't see the play, and could not call it. To his credit, the Red Sox coach did not get involved other than to step out of the dugout to listen. I am sure he was as amazed as I was to hear the story. After a brief conversation, the umpire asked Joey if he was sure. Joey said yes, he was. There were no tears, no drama. Joey had not gotten a hit all game, but apparently, he had no interest in staining his own honor for a single, in a game that was (pretty much) in the bag. He did this in front of his friends, his peers, and the entire other team. The umpire ended up calling him out, and he casually jogged back to the dugout. You might expect the reception he got from his teammates. If you said high-fives and pats on the back, you would be right. No jeers. No dirty looks. Then they went out and played the last two innings, scoring four more runs and allowing only one. You could say that they were not the least bit affected by what Joey did. Why should they be? They are solidly in first place, with an 11-1 record, and a 10 game winning streak to start the season. I don't know if he got a standing "O" on the way back to the dugout, but he probably should have. You might find one kid in this league of 6-12 year olds who would have had the sack to step up to the umpire and with 6 little words, set the example for everyone in attendance.
His name is Joey, and he plays for the Coupeville Braves. He may not have given up a million bucks, or even the win, but he certainly moved up a few notches in the respect department.
I may have to buy him a bigger cup...